“If you are smart, you move to San Francisco. If you are ambitious, you move to LA. If you are smart and ambitious, you move to New York.”- found on Ms. Melissa Rowley’s blog.

I’ve done all three. where do I go now?

So I had a whole conversation with the lovely Miss Erika Johansson about boys and failed relationships. and we came up with the fact that all men do these days is play games and that online dating websites fail. EPICALLY.

we were talking about the article i posted on twitter yesterday about women, higher education and marriage.  It argues that women get married for different reasons now, so why do we have to settle if we’re looking for love.

it reminded me of this quote:

“i am someone lookin for love real love, ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, cant live without each other love”- sex and the city

Is this even realistic now?  Have we been so seduced by romance novels and chick flicks that we believe it can actually happen to us?  Should we settle for the “best friend for life” and not the “soul mate”?